Established 2026 · Published monthly

The Good Neighbor Journal

Plain writing about growing older at home

From the editor

Welcome to the Journal

Most of what gets written for people our age is either frightening or condescending. This little paper tries to be neither. It is written the way a sensible neighbor would explain something over a fence: slowly, in ordinary words, and without pretending to know more than it does.

I started the Journal after spending a winter helping my mother sort out what was worth worrying about and what was not. She is eighty-four. She had a folder of clippings, a drawer of half-read pamphlets, and no clear idea which of them applied to her. What she wanted was not more information. She wanted someone to tell her, plainly, what a thing meant and whether it was worth a phone call to her doctor.

So that is what we publish here. Three or four pieces a month about how the body changes as it gets older, how a house can be made easier to live in, and what is genuinely worth asking a physician about at the next visit.

Nothing in this Journal is medical advice, and nothing here is a substitute for your own doctor. We write so that you can have a better conversation with them — not instead of one.

If a piece here is useful to you, the best thing you can do with it is print it and take it to your next appointment. Several readers have told me they do exactly that, which is the nicest thing anyone has said about the Journal so far.

Margaret Hayes


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A note on what this paper is

The Good Neighbor Journal is an independent publication. We do not diagnose, treat, or prescribe, and we do not publish claims about curing or preventing any disease. If something you read here worries you, or if something about your own health has changed, speak to a licensed physician. In an emergency in the United States, call 911.